Have your kids been enjoying the lunch box jokes this past week? Kristen released 2 pages of jokes today – 20 more funnies guaranteed to make your kid the hit of the lunch table! Not to mention, it’s a “love” note from mom that they won’t be embarrassed to let the other kids see. :)
I’m breaking status quo here on Sprik Space to share something with all of you that I’m head over heels excited about… and I’m running a GIVEAWAY!
Eighteen years ago, I was a senior in high school and she was a freshman… little did I know, Kristen Duke had some mad photo skills brewing and would later turn into an amazing photographer!
Of course, at this point in my life I would love to get my little family professionally photographed… by Kristen. Sadly, she’s in Austin, and I’m in Chicago. I haven’t been back to Texas since the year that photo was taken (layovers don’t count), and when I missed her recent workshop in Arizona by a mere 4 hours, I was majorly bummed.
So, for now, I’ll just have to make do by trying to better my own photo-taking skills. Let’s be honest, for pictures worth keeping and especially framing, auto settings on any camera just don’t cut it, and standard flash usage ruins great photos. I’ve studied a little bit online, but it’s more than a bit overwhelming for a newbie like myself. There’s just way too much information out there, and I don’t really know where to begin.
Kristen has recently updated her popular “Say NO to Auto” e-book, and I absolutely love it! You don’t have to own a DSLR camera to benefit from her helpful tips. I downloaded her revised e-book a little while ago, and it’s already helping me to understand the manual settings on my little point-and-shoot camera. That’s because she’s broken it down to 3 steps – just the basics you need to learn to achieve better-looking photos, no matter what type of camera you own. This easy-to-understand e-book is just 17 mini-pages or 4 regular-size pages, that you can print yourself or peruse on your computer. And, guess what – Kristen has graciously offered a copy of her handy dandy e-book to one of my readers!
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That’s up to 5 opportunities to win for each of you!
Giveaway closes: Tuesday, August 16th at 11:59pm, central time.
Number of winners: One lucky reader.
Other info: I’ll select the winner using random.org and announce on Wednesday, August 17th.
P.S. If you’re chosen as the lucky winner, and you’ve previously downloaded Kristen’s e-book, she will happily refund your money. :)
P.P.S. Don’t trust your odds in this giveaway and want to get her e-book for yourself? It’s only $10, and you can read more about it here.
P.P.P.S. If there’s a good response to this giveaway, I have a music mix I’m dying to share with a lucky reader in a potentially upcoming giveaway… and it’s seriously gooooood!!
What did we all do online before social media? I hardly remember anymore…
Do you follow Sprik Space on Facebook? Not only is each post listed when it’s published, but I’ve begun to highlight some of your submissions. So many of you have sent me FUN pics of the printables (& other ideas) in action. It really makes my day and I'm so flattered that you like them enough to incorporate them. (Just leave a comment or shoot me an e-mail.) Please keep sending them in! :) You can follow Sprik Space on Facebook here.
My latest source of inspiration would have to be Pinterest. LOVE it. It’s my latest place to browse and I find myself gathering ideas much like I did when I was posting Brief Bits regularly. (Which I vow to do again, someday.) If you’re a fan of Brief Bits-style posts, then you’ll love this site. You can follow my Pinterest boards here.
I do have a Twitter account… but I don’t do anything with it. And probably never will. Twitter’s just not for me, and that’s okay.
So that’s all for now… I have several family update posts to write. Grandparents haven’t seen pics of Connor since I don’t know how long. I’d better get those edited and written up before I get in trouble!
Also, check out Tabitha’s version of the ABC & 123 Posters on Happy Cake… I really like how she repurposed her frames – they look great!
Confession: I don’t always get them printed out myself by the time I post them (because I’m too eager to share), so I LOVE seeing them printed by all of you!
I’d be happy to feature your photos of the printables I’ve offered, so please send them to me here. :)
I'm so incredibly honored that the ABC/123 Posters are such a big hit. I had no idea they would make such a splash, I just figured that they might be worth sharing... and a few people would like them. {blush.} Thanks so much for all of your kind comments and feedback!
P.S. If you've printed them, I'd love to see a picture of the posters in your home! Here's the ABC Poster hung in Hayley's cute nursery! Seriously, check out her nursery... the name on the wall - "I die."
So I'm the brother, Scott... the orneriest of the bunch, the one that broke Aimee's arm once in adolescence cause she has a hard time (apparently) roller skating whilst being shoved by me at Mach 3 around the rink screaming for her life. Ehhhh, it happens, right? Right??!!
Anyhow... Aimee recently participated/contributed to something I'm a part of, and suggested I write a guest post to let others know about it.
I wouldn't normally do this... but it's for a reason and purpose that's very close to my heart. So I'm going to tell you a story... a long, but very real story.
My very best friend's name is Marisa. We met back in the mid ‘90s when my family moved to Scottsdale, and we have been friends ever since. Marisa turned 31 about 6 months ago. When she was born (and old enough to understand), she was told she shouldn't live past her teens – because at birth, she was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis.
Cystic Fibrosis is a genetic, degenerative, and presently un-curable disease. In short, due to a faulty gene, sodium and chloride don't pass through cells like they should. The result of which causes thick mucus to build up in the lungs and nutrient malabsorption in the intestinal tract. In 1930, life expectancy of babies with CF was up to one year. By the 1950s, it reached 5 years. By the 1980s, it was nearly 20 years, and today, it's almost double that.
Marisa told me once that growing up, she always had a number in the back of her mind... the number was what she believed to be the age of her last birthday. As the years went on and advancements in treatments and drugs were pushed to market, she kept surpassing that number in her head. To be honest, I know she still has a number and how that weighs on her conscience, I can't even fathom.
(Watch for Marisa in this CF video.)
Life with CF consists of 3-4 times daily hour-long nebulized/inhaled breathing treatments and 3-4 hour-long chest percussion treatments, all in an effort to thin and expel the mucus - enabling you to breathe, function, and carry on with your life. You also can't eat anything (unless you want it to come out in less than 30 minutes) without ingesting 7-10 enzymes per meal so that your body is forced to absorb the nutrients from food, because of how CF affects the intestinal tract.
Anyhow... Marisa wasn't alone in her struggle... her younger sister of 5 years also had CF. It affected her sister differently and more severely than it does Marisa... her sister's lungs weren't as strong and at age 17 (in 2000), she underwent a living donor, double-lung transplant. You and I have two lungs comprised of two lobes each (upper and lower). Wellesley and her mom & dad were thankfully genetic matches for transplantation. So, all three of them went under the knife at the same time and her mom & dad each had one lobe removed…those two little adult lobes then filled their daughter’s chest. The surgery went well, the recovery was long, but Wellesley enjoyed a quality of life she hadn't seen... ever. In February of 2001, Wellesley sadly lost her battle with the disease due to complications at the age of 18 – a few months before her high school graduation.
Until recently, anyone who meets Marisa wouldn't have a clue she has Cystic Fibrosis. You might notice she coughs from time-to-time (well, all the time) but other than that, Marisa doesn't acknowledge to herself that she's sick. She's just Marisa. If you hung out with her for a full day you'd get to see how intense her lifestyle is just to keep breathing. You'd notice how she hides her chest percussion machine and makes it look like an end table, and puts her nebulizer in away out of sight. If you watched closely, you'd see her sneak pill after pill after pill into her mouth. If you hung around long enough, you'd learn she's admitted into the hospital two to three times a year for 4-6 weeks for what she calls a "tune-up".
Again, let me remind you... Marisa doesn't see herself as sick... this is just her life and she functions juuuuuuust fine. She has graduated college, held jobs, travels, has fun, loves her family and friends and on and on. She's just like you and me, but was dealt a very different hand at birth.
Outside the hospital, Marisa lives by herself – is very independent, and qualified for "disability" a few years ago which provides some passive income. She’s also found a few awesome families for whom she can nanny that accommodate her (unexpected, unplanned and frequent) health challenges and hospital admits. Combined, she's been able to afford her independence in personal expenses... just like you and me and anyone else because Marisa isn't sick... she's entitled to everything that everyone else is and she's been determined to do just that.
A few years back, I learned (through some brow beating it out of her) that based on affordability, she was choosing NOT to fill some of her prescriptions. Her family and I intervened, changed all the mailing addresses on her medical claims and bills and health plan to someone else's address, and made her swear not to open another bill. We made her promise to fill all her prescriptions when she needed to, and not to worry about how much they were. We've been able to keep the out-of-pocket medical expenses just under $10,000 per year. Yes, yes, that's a fortune… but behind the scenes her extended family and I make it work, and on the surface we tell Marisa the medical fund we established through Bank of America is flush with cash. (In truth it's never flush with cash but we make it work, and it removes the burden of Marisa choosing groceries over medicine or visa versa).
So here's the latest update... Marisa was recently discharged from the hospital after having spent the longest stay of her life (to date) there. Eight weeks to be exact. She wasn't getting any better inside the hospital... (that has NEVER happened). She kept on getting lung infections, she was coughing up blood... she didn't feel well, she was scared.
Marisa doesn't let a lot of people into her thoughts (she's tough as nails, and has to be), but a couple weeks ago, we both had a little meltdown. I was staying with her in the hospital and ultimately came up with the idea to write down some very specific questions because we knew the pulmonologist was making rounds the next day. He came by and took about an hour to humor us... through tears and silent moments, Marisa got to talk to those who have become her "friends" (not doctors) over the last three decades of hospital stays, about what's really up. The army of doctors and nurses who treat CFers down in Tucson, AZ, know that this routine isn't new to their patients – it's their life. So, you don't often get bedside consults… because at the end of the day, it is what it is. They do their best to monitor your health and get your lungs feeling better, then push you out the door to see how long you can stay on the outside until you have to come back in.
The bottom line is that Marisa is having to face the fact that her health has turned a corner. She doesn’t know if it will find its way back... doesn’t know if there will be gradual or rapid hills that go down or up… doesn’t know if she can turn BACK around and get on the same path she was on before she was admitted. But this last time, she wasn't pushed out of the hospital with the same vigor as she had been previously.
This time, however, she was pushed out with a fancy new machine – an oxygen compressor that she now uses overnight so that her blood’s oxygen saturation doesn't fall below a certain level. She also was put on a recently FDA-approved inhaled medicine that actually has its own machine to administer it and ions to charge it up, and weird stuff I don't even understand. The manufacturer had to comp it for the first month, because it's insanely expensive (like $5,000/month), but it's showing promise. The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation and drug manufacturer’s goodwill program are trying to get it into the lungs of lots of CF patients so they can prove it works, get it subsidized by grants and private funding, and distributed widely, so the cost comes down. If you’re keeping track, that's 4 more treatments a day on top of the others to add to her routine.
If you've made it this far, congratulations!
If you read no further, I hope you leave with the impression of understanding that lots of people have lots of struggles in their lives. Some are consequences of previous decisions, some are merely circumstance… but it's how you deal with them that counts. It's how you react to them that defines your character.
For anyone who knows Marisa personally, you'd know that she's far from perfect herself, but that every single day she chooses to live one more. She chooses by taking her medicine, by trying to work out her lungs and increase their capacity, by trying to cough up that mucus, by making sure she's taking the correct dose of enzymes, by making a cough sound like a sneeze in public so people around her don't think she has a cold, by letting this funny machine shake her for an hour – 3-4 times a day to loosen up what's in her lungs. She does all this with the best attitude one could ask for, each and every day. So what I take and have learned from knowing her, in reflecting on my own life and mortality, is that I've learned not to sweat the small stuff, to enjoy each day, foster productive friendships and relationships and get rid of negative ones, and to have fun for crying out loud! That's what I hope you get from all this.
If you want to know how you can make a difference in Marisa's life, please keep reading!
Marisa's parents had an idea that they got Marisa to tentatively agree to prior to her leaving the hospital. The proposal involved her changing her focus of balancing work/life/expenses to something more singular. They told her that her new full-time job should be her health, that she should commit to that every morning, noon, and night, and try to have fun along the way. Marisa's stepmom hatched up the idea that if just 50 people contributed a mere $20 per month, that $1,000 per month eliminates her from HAVING to work to maintain her modest lifestyle, enjoyment of life, and independence. I'm the super geek behind the scenes that threw up a website that explains the program and I encourage you to take a look. We got Marisa to agree to this because we said people are constantly asking her parents if there's "anything they can do". Now, in addition to your thoughts and prayers, there is a way to help – in a small way alone, but collectively in a very significant way. Marisa only agreed to this on the condition that NONE of her friends knew about it – she doesn’t want charity, but she is realizing that she needs to focus on her health right now. (A few of her close friends do know, and are now helping – relieved to be actually doing something and remaining anonymous, all at the same time.) We also asked Marisa, that if SHE was presented with this idea, would she contribute $20 a month to someone, enabling them to live and breathe and enjoy their life – she sighed and said she "totally would"… so a little reverse psychology helped too. :)
Marisa sometimes reads this blog so I asked Aimee to bury this post with other posts above it after a day or so, and maybe even yank it (cause Marisa would hit the roof if she found out and pull the plug on the entire thing). Please don’t say anything to her, to make sure that doesn't happen... ummmkay?
Thanks for reading this far and thanks for checking out the website.
Marisa is one of the most beautiful people I know, both inside and out. She has cystic fibrosis, but she doesn’t let it define her… though sadly it has ruled her life. Marisa has always been an amazing friend to my brother and our entire family. We’ve been so touched by Scott’s tireless efforts on her behalf, and can’t think of anyone more deserving.
If you would like an opportunity to directly affect someone’s life, please visit:
I love my son… and he makes a pretty good shopping companion. However, I’m not fond of torturing him while I go from store to store trying to find the exact thing I need. Dealing with strollers and car seats too many times in one day gets on my last nerve. And, he still doesn’t get that much exposure anyway.
Enter the internet…
I’m on the hunt for the perfect pair of summer sandals. Something comfortable and stylish, without too much of a heel. I was convinced this search would be the end of me.
Shopping online at Zappos is like traipsing around to 3 different malls… there’s that many shoes! And their search function is great, allowing me to whittle my pickiness down to the last detail.
With their outrageously generous shipping policy (FREE BOTH WAYS!) and easy-peasy returns (you have a full year), when I’m in the need for new soles, I look to Zappos… every time. If you were already planning on buying shoes and paying department store sale prices, Zappos is definitely for you. Their pricing is very reasonable, and for the convenience, I consider it worth every penny.
So, I wait until the day after my credit card statement closes for the month… then I go crazy shopping at Zappos, putting all the shoes in my online cart that I would have asked the shoe salesman to pull out for me at the store. Lately, it’s been about a dozen shoes or so at a time (there’s just too many to choose from, and brands I’ve never bought before, so I have no idea how they’ll fit). :S
Because my order is large, Zappos upgrades my shipping to overnight for FREE. So, the very next day, I receive a big box of shoes on my doorstep… seriously – the very next day.(I placed an order yesterday at nearly 7pm my time, and according to my package tracking, my order will be delivered TODAY.)
In the comfort of my home, I take my time trying and evaluating which shoes I want to keep… sometimes its just one pair, sometimes a couple. When I’m all done, I visit their site again, process my return, print out my label, box back up the shoes I want to send back, and drop the package at my local UPS store. For me, I make sure to do all this before my credit card statement closes for the next month, thereby ensuring I don’t have to pay or carry a large Zappos charge on my statement. They’ve always processed my refund and posted my credit within a week of my return shipment.
So seriously, if you’re in the market for a new pair of shoes… you can’t go wrong with Zappos!
Please note: I am NOT being paid or compensated in any way to write about Zappos… unless you consider the fact that I’m about to receive my second dozen set of sandals to peruse. :S I’ve just had a really good experience, and wanted to share the love!
…than to use these gorgeous, FREE, downloadable invitation templates from Download & Print. Every weekday a new template is posted… and the best part is that each template is simply a Word document. So, just download, open up, adjust details and fonts, and print… it’s so easy, even my mom could do it. :)
While I know I don't have to have every baby gadget out there, if I'm able to justify that it will make my life easier, and I won't be able to make do without it... well, (within reason) I buy it.
Shopping at Babies R Us/Toys R Us always leaves me a little uninspired, as well as feeling like I need to dip myself in bleach. I don't know what it is about their stores near us, but they're always junky, germy, and completely disorganized. To be honest, we only really go there when we absolutely have to (ie. to use up store credit). Just about everything they carry can be found at friendlier stores like Target or WalMart. And by friendlier, I mostly mean willing to accept returns. As we've learned the hard way, returning anything to BRU/TRU means a monumental hassle - your receipt must be in pristine condition, the item must have never left its original packaging, much less the bag it was brought home in (I'm only barely exaggerating here). And their honoring of coupons and advertised sales is a total joke. A few weeks ago, we stood in line behind a couple trying to have the $3 taken off their purchase as displayed on the shelf. It took 20 minutes, 3 employees plus a store manager, to finally verify and apply the discount - this effort cost the store much, much more than a measly $3. By the time it was our turn, the frazzled cashier refused to apply my 20% off any BABY item coupon towards the BABY toy I had found in the BABY aisle. Of course, there was no fine print on the coupon stating their definition of a BABY item. At this point, my time and energy was worth more to me than the $2 I should have rightfully saved.
I just figured I would take my little coupon to our favorite store instead...
They honor any competitor's and manufacturer's coupons, no questions asked.
They accept returns for anything sold in their stores or online, without a receipt, no matter the condition - just based on your satisfaction alone, no questions asked.
They frequently mail out 20% off coupons ANDaccept current 20% off coupons from their sister store, AND help you at the checkout to maximize your savings based on the coupons you have in hand.
They sell everything from Munchkin and Graco to Stokke and Phil & Ted's. (Their stroller department is a must-see, if only to do research.) Their selection is the best I've seen, hands down.
Their inventory is priced just right... typically in line with the prices you'd find at Target. (And then you use a 20% off coupon on top of that!)
Their stores are always clean, well stocked and organized, with friendly, plentiful, and knowledgeable sales staff.
We found their Downer's Grove store just a few months before I got pregnant with Connor, and with having to visit Cranial Tech every two weeks, it's still a frequent stop. So far, they only have locations in a few states: Arizona | Florida | Georgia | Illinois | Indiana | Maryland | Michigan | New Jersey | New York |North Carolina | Ohio | Pennsylvania | Texas | Virginia. But if there's one near you, or near an upcoming travel destination you have in mind... and you have or will have little ones soon. GO.TO.THERE.
Suffice it to say, we've spent a small fortune at Buy Buy Baby, but Connor's totally worth it, right?!? ;)
Previously, I've posted about my own family tree project here. This past year, while nervously waiting through one of Connor's surgeries, I wrote out the names and birthdates on all of the leaves, and my mom helped me complete the placement. It turned out just like the picture, and I love it!
I recently came across another lovely website, thanks to ohdeedoh, chock full of GORGEOUS family trees. Check out My Tree & Me. They offer several different, modern takes on the family tree idea, all for under $100 - COMPLETED with your info (for under $70, you can receive a DIY print).
As I'm not the biggest fan of my own handwriting, if I had to do it all over again, I would have ordered one all printed up from My Tree & Me.
One thing I love about Chicago, is the fact that we experience 4 distinct seasons.
Unfortunately winter is the most distinct, but we begrudgingly survive it each year.
Right now, the colors around town are GORGEOUS!
I've been reading a lot of Utah blogs lately, where pics of fall foliage from the canyons and mountainsides are posted.
Makes me just a wee bit jealous...
So, last weekend, we headed off to our own mountain mound of garbage to see what we could see.
Although the day was gray, the colors were spectacular!
Only 5 more days to check out the fall foliage from the Scenic Overlook, at the Greene Valley Forest Preserve: October 17-18, 24-25, & 31, between 11am-6pm.
If it's not too hazy, you might even get a glimpse of downtown.
The show happens just once a year in Brooklyn, LA, San Francisco, & Chicago. (With holiday shows held in Chicago & San Francisco.) Chicago's show is this weekend, in Wicker Park!! We're going to miss the annual holiday show this year, so this is my last chance, until Fall 2010.